After more than 12 months of planning, this is it. The big day is less than five days away. Let me take a moment to pause and reflect because things are hectic as it is.
My mom, my sister and my brother-in-law arrived Friday morning. I picked them up at the airport and brought them immediately to Cecilio Abad's for their fitting. As expected, neither of their gowns would fit (too loose!). We're going to return on Wednesday for the final fitting (including me!). My gown will be delivered on Friday at Vivere where I'm checked in for the preparations.
I'm excited, of course, but I don't feel like I'm getting married. I don't know if it's because merging my life with Leo is not as traumatic as other couples paint it to be? Of course, my room is a mess right now as I'm trying to pack stuff which I can bring to our new home. Unfortunately, I can't bring all my stuff. So I have to choose carefully.
I'll be bringing my books, of course. Although not everything. The first books I packed were my Harry Potter Collection (hardbound!). I saw in National Bookstore that they have the HP collection on sale with its own box! I want that! But Leo said it's impractical as I have all the books already. Why do I need another set? Well yeah, but I want the box!
I also had my despedida de soltera last Sunday. I only invited immediate relatives. It was great seeing everyone. Some people got confused and thought that it was my shower (which incidentally, my matron of honor was not successfully able to pull off. No worries though).
What Leo and I are more nervous about is the reception. We're not used having the spotlight on us. That's why we tried to abbreviate the program as much as possible so the focus won't be too much on us (as if we could avoid it). We skipped some usual traditions (goodbye garter and bouquet toss). We reasoned out that our age group is too (ahem) mature for such a segments. We opt for some couples' games instead.
Anyway, starting Thursday, I'll just leave everything to the capable hands of my wonderful coordinator and to God. Whatever will be will be. The important thing is that Leo and I get to say our vows in front of a priest and God. The others are just secondary.
Lord, don't let me turn into a bridezilla. Help me to let go.
1 comment:
you'll be fine sweetie, im sure of it. and your wedding will be smooth and sweet :)
ah, i was expecting to hear about the shower. di pala natuloy. i received an email from claudine about it. anyway ok nga lang yon.
stay beautiful :) big hug!
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